Pisces (February 19-March 20)
You’re starting to figure out that your self-worth comes from you and you only—that’s why it’s called what it is. I gather you’re wrapping your mind and your emotions around the extent to which you’ve projected your lack of self-worth onto others—that is, into relationship environments. These are the situations where, for example, you decided that you were unworthy because you had the idea someone else thought you were. I tell you, I’ve noticed how mean and catty people can be, and it takes discernment to figure out that it’s not about you, it’s about them. This month, the contrast is going to be rather stark. You will get to discover what it’s like to have something approaching authentic confidence and to have the insecurities of others be entirely transparent. This is your chance to claim back nearly all of the inner territory you lost in this push-and-pull struggle that has gone on since childhood. It is true that to brush off the insensitivity of another person you might need to be insensitive for a moment, and that is precisely the point: You actually feel it when people are even a little mean to you, even if it’s inadvertent. Now you can consciously direct your sensitivity toward those who admit to feeling you. Show yourself to those who see you. Take conscious nourishment from the sentiments of those who respect you. All of these things are choices that, as you exercise them, will become ever stronger.